The domain of psychology is saturated with discussions and studies regarding personalities and their types, such as extroverts and introverts. Still, not every person is aware of the most optimal ways to communicate with different personalities, such as introverts, in one’s circle of people. Although introverts might behave differently around close people, it still does not imply that they would appreciate constant questions and violation of privacy.
First, it is noteworthy that not everyone is aware of the preferences of introverts. While introverts understand extroverts and their preference to communicate with others, not every extrovert understands an introvert. In his article, Jonathan Rauch (2003) even compares famous politicians who were the representatives of the two groups. For instance, While George W. Bush and Bill Clinton “come fully to life only around other people,” presidents like Ronald Reagan are characterized as those with “aloofness and privateness” (Rauch, 2003, p.3). Therefore, extroverts must embrace the innate nature of introverts finally.
Moreover, there is a need to eliminate stigma in society when it comes to introverts. This point stems widely from the first argument, and the reason for this is that people not only fail to understand the nature of introverts but set certain expectations and, if people do not meet them, characterize them as “guarded,” “loner,” “reserved,” “taciturn,” “self-contained,” “private” (Rauch, 2003, p.3). Therefore, it is essential to let introverts function at their own pace and not stigmatize them as loners if they are not as adept at communicating with others or being around many people.
Finally, introverts might not always appreciate a set of questions regarding their mood. There can be other ways of supporting them and showing them one’s presence in their lives. Sometimes, this can be done by simply remaining silent and by their side. According to Rauch, questions like “What’s the matter?” or “Are you alright?” do not lead to the anticipated results (Rauch, 2012, p.5). Thus, it is better not to say anything and respect introverts’ wishes.
Hence, although they could act differently in front of close friends and family members, introverts do not always enjoy being bothered constantly or having their privacy invaded. First, it is important to emphasize that not everyone is aware of introverts’ preferences. In addition, there has to be less stigma toward introverts in society. Finally, asking introverted inquiries about their mood may not always be appreciated.
Reference
Rauch, J. (2003). Caring for your introvert. The Atlantic. Web.